Relationship questions to ask
A deck of gentle, honest questions for the two of you — whether you met last month or grew up together. Pick a theme, or let the whole deck shuffle, and take them one at a time.
What's a small thing you're quietly proud of that most people never notice?
✦A gentle deck for two. Take them slowly — there is no scoreboard.
Three steps
Choose a theme
Getting to know you, the everyday, love and closeness, the past, the future, or the honest ones — or shuffle everything.
Take a card
Read it out, both answer, and only move on when it feels finished.
Stop while it's good
There's no scoreboard. Come back to the deck another night.
Why questions work
Most couples talk every day and still rarely ask each other anything new. A good question gives you both permission to say something you might not have said otherwise.
Every question in this deck is original to lovepsychic.me, written to be warm and open rather than clinical. If you'd rather read them as a list, see our themed question pages.
Questions people ask
How many relationship questions are in the deck?
Sixty, across six themes of ten.
Are these questions for new or long-term couples?
Both. The early themes suit new relationships; the honest ones and the future questions often land best with couples who have been together a while.
Can I see all the questions at once?
Yes — our themed lists, like deep questions for couples and date night questions, show them as a readable list.